From Dad
“I still leave the porch light on when I know you are driving home. You are a grown woman and you know the way, but some habits are worth keeping.”
“When you say yes today, I will be saying a quiet yes of my own. Yes to your happiness, yes to your new family, and yes to every good year ahead.”
“Somewhere in your class is a quiet kid who feels seen because of you. They may never say it, but they will remember you for the rest of their lives.”
“You got your mother's patience and her way with people, which was lucky. You also got my stubborn streak, which I have watched you use better than I did.”
“The hand I hold as we walk today is the same one I held crossing the street. It is a little bigger now, and it is ready to hold someone else's for life.”
“I used to watch you ride your bike to the end of the street and back. Now you are going much farther, and I am watching with the same proud smile.”
“I have watched you blow out every candle on every cake since the very first. Each year I make the same quiet wish, and each year it comes true.”
“The first time I saw you in your scrubs, I knew you had found your place. You have the skill, the heart and the steady hands this work needs.”
“I have practiced my toast a hundred times, and I still cannot get through it dry-eyed. So here is the short version, just for you.”
“Every winter you borrowed my scarf for your snowman and never gave it back. I never minded. He looked a lot better in it than I did.”
“When you were little, we sang in the car with the windows rolled down. Today I will hear those songs in my head as I watch you say I do.”
“I know about the Sunday nights spent grading and planning for the week ahead. Nobody sees that part of the job, but I see it, and it makes me so proud.”
“I know about the late nights grading and the supplies you buy with your own money. You do it because you believe in every kid in that room.”
“The summer you were seven, we planted tomatoes and you checked them every morning. You taught me that the best things take a little patience and a lot of love.”
“Every year you picked the tallest tree on the lot, and it never once fit. I sawed off the top and never minded, because you were so happy.”
“I knew this was right the first time I saw how you two look at each other. It is how every dad hopes his daughter will be looked at one day.”
“The world could use a few more people like you. Kind, hardworking and brave enough to try the things that scare them.”
“You used to hand me the wrong screwdriver every single time. I never said a word, because I just liked having you there beside me.”
“I hope the year ahead brings you good news, good friends and plenty of rest. Most of all, I hope it brings you a few reasons to be proud of yourself.”
“Soon you will start your first real job, and they are lucky to have you. You will learn fast, work hard, and be kind to everyone in the building.”
“Stand tall, even if you fall. Take pride in how far you've come. Have faith in how far you can go. But don't forget to enjoy the journey along the way.”
“I still think about those long summer days when you were little. Sandy feet, melting ice cream and you laughing until the sun went down.”
“If I could give you one gift, it would be to see yourself through my eyes. You would see someone kind, brave and far more capable than you think.”
“Someday when the pages of my life end, you will be one of the most beautiful chapters. Stand tall, even if you fall. When life tries to knock you down, this old lion will always have your back.”