Daughters
“You inherited my sense of humor and made it even better. Remember: you're braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and funnier than you think. Keep spreading joy wherever you go, sweetheart.”
“You have worked birthdays, holidays and more night shifts than I can count. I hope you get this birthday off, and if not, I hope someone brings you cake.”
“It starts to feel like Christmas the moment your car pulls into the driveway. Before that it is just lights, a tree and a lot of waiting.”
“Your Christmas lists used to run three pages, with pictures cut from catalogs. These days, the thing I want most is just time with you.”
“I still remember running behind your first bike, holding on to the seat. The day I let go, you rode all the way to the end of the street.”
“When you took your first breath, I told you I love you. And I'd use my last breath to tell you the same. I might not be with you, but know that I believe in you.”
“Your first classroom is waiting, with empty walls and a desk that is all yours. By June it will be full of drawings, noise and kids who think the world of you.”
“The first time you pay for your own groceries, you will think of me. And you will finally understand why I hid the good snacks.”
“I hope your first houseplant survives longer than mine ever did. And I hope your new home grows just as green and full of life.”
“I hope your first morning in your new home is quiet and sunny. A good cup of coffee, a box or two still to unpack, and a big proud feeling.”
“Your first night in a new place will feel strange, and all the noises will be new. By next month it will feel like home, because you make every place feel that way.”
“When you were little, you made me sit at your toy desk and take your quizzes. I failed most of them, and you were a very strict teacher.”
“Your house, your rules. Eat cereal for dinner if you want. Just promise me you will eat a vegetable now and then.”
“I hope your new neighborhood has a good coffee shop and friendly neighbors. And I hope you find your favorite walk before the first month is out.”
“The first time you turn the key in your own front door, take a moment. You worked hard for this, and you deserve to stand there and feel proud.”
“You are strong in a quiet way that not everyone notices. I notice, and I have admired it since you were very small.”
“Your graduation photo is going right in the middle of the fridge. Right next to your kindergarten one, so everyone can see how far you have come.”
“This is your reminder to drink some water, get some sleep and call your dad. Also, go easy on yourself. You are doing better than you think.”
“I am not changing a thing about your old room for a while yet. It will be right there whenever you want to come home for the weekend.”
“Your stocking still goes up every year, right where it has always hung. No matter how grown up you get, it is never coming down.”
“Every day you walk into a room full of kids who need you to be patient. And every day you find more patience than anyone has a right to expect.”